“You don’t fall in love with a body, you fall in love with a soul. And once in love with a soul, everything about that body becomes beautiful.” – A.B.
The universe has a way of bringing people in our lives for a purpose and a meaning. One such person turns out to be the better half of ourselves and we don’t even realise and fall in love with them. Everybody needs someone to complete them in this world, however, it may not be easy to realise who your destiny is linked with. We all need some help in one way or the other to nudge us in the right direction. Here are 10 signs that you’ve found your soulmate.
1. It Feels Right
Spiritually speaking, when this person comes around in your vicinity, it just feels right to you. Your instincts won’t ask you to fear the connection or to run away but to embrace the curiosity and indulge in the chance of knowing more about them. And somehow, it always happens at the right time, when you need that person the most in your life. As I said, the universe has its way.
2. You Understand Each Other
It is easier for you to understand each other and you feel like not trying too hard to make a connection because it is already there. You find yourself in a trance and you always want to know more about their lives. And soon you find relating to their experiences and realise that this is what you have always wanted till now. A relationship is not always blissful, but with an understanding partner, it sure gets easier.
3. Discover and Embrace the Flaws
Not only do you understand each other perfectly well, you learn about each others’ flaws and embrace them. They say that you can’t hate anything about the person you love, and you finally realise what it means. And that is same for both the people in the relationship as they start uncovering each others’ flaws and learns to embrace and cherish them.
4. Trust, Honesty & Dignity
Communication is the strongest sign to realise when you have met your soulmate. You are not afraid of being truthful, honest and open with this person. You are confident of your spiritual connection with them that you are ready to take your chances but would much rather like to build a relationship that is built on strong foundations.
5. Silence Isn’t Awkward
Not only do you start enjoying every conversation with them, but you also start to marvel in the silence when in a company with each other. It is easy to start a conversation, but it is just as easy for you to enjoy your time together in silence. Sometimes in a relationship, you feel awkward if you are not finding any topics to talk about and can make the silence awkward. But with a soulmate, it is different, and you will know it.
6. You Trust Each Other
A relationship is stronger when the couple understands and trusts each other. When you find your better half, you will genuinely respect and trust each other with all your secrets and issues. It has been proven that a supporting soulmate can help to fight against self-esteem issues and help you see yourself in a positive and empowering light.
7. You Empathize with Them
You find yourself reeling in each others’ pain as well as happiness. The connection that you have with the other means that you will feel their emotions and so will they. The shared empathizing will make the relationship stronger as you feel like there is someone you can speak your mind to and trust that they will understand what you are going through. This makes it easier to get through the hard times and relish in the good ones.
8. Compromise and Apologize
A strong bond feeds on compromising and apologizing when the opportunity calls for it. You will find yourself more interested in what your soulmate wants to do and would enjoy giving up your plans occasionally, to keep them happy. Even when the opportunity calls for it, none of you will hesitate in saying sorry no matter whose fault it is. No one is ready to do these things unless you really care and respect your significant other.
9. You Complete Each Other
Meeting your soulmate is like finding a missing piece of the puzzle that fits to complete you as a person. You will not only feel complete with them, but you will realise what you had been missing all along. It teaches you to always learn something new when you are together and constantly evolve and become a better person in their presence. Just because you haven’t felt so strongly for anyone before, doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. Maybe it just takes the right person to come in your life for it.
10. You Would Do It All Again
At the end of the day, you love them, and you would do everything all over again if you had to. If I was given a chance, I would get married once again and wish for the same person and the greatest life I have. You are aware of your flaws and your secrets, but it finally feels right to share it with someone who is your anchor in this lifetime at least. And that is how I know, I am with my soulmate.
Life has a way of fixing all our problems but at the right time. I am a strong believer of everything been planned for us and therefore we meet people for a reason and at the time we are destined to, no sooner no later. I hope you all find your soulmate and cherish them forever and always.
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